Our culture is NOT a particularly healthy one, and if one's culture makes one live unhealthily and confused and ALL the rest of it, then it is a BAD thing to conform to it and become it.
Most become it because it is the easy path to take. The difficult path is to look at the disorder, and become Order.
The ego is FERVENTLY held in reverence in our society, and when the ego is revered, as it is, then of course there will be discord and violence everywhere. There's absolutely no balance between self and group, secularly, and we are deteriorating because of this.
What can be done? Well, we need a profoundly different way of living. A balanced